Cancer, the most emotional zodiac sign, is personified by the crab because in a cold, uncaring world, one needs a shell to guard their heart.
They've been burned by rejection and indifference, so they can't imagine someone could love them as much as they love others.
They struggle to self-soothe like everyone with a fearful-avoidant attachment style.
having parents who frequently argued in front of them, they desperately want an emotional relationship but would do anything to sabotage it.
This often manifests in accusatory behavior toward their partner—accusations of cheating, flagrant displays of distrust
The most heartbreaking and tragic part of this behavior pattern is that they realize they do it, that it only leads to loneliness again
once they're isolated, they cry out for attachment, but when they find someone who promises to never leave them alone, they push them away.
Consider this a career restart—network with friends, colleagues, etc. to find a new job in two months.